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heart breaking to read that, very sorry. condolences to you and your kids. may she rest easy and be at peace
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My gosh, I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray for peace for you and your boys through this.
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Once again I really appreciate your kind words wishes & prayers. You have no idea how much it means to hear a comforting word. Thanks to all of you
Originally posted by Aceman View PostSo sorry man - I don't have any words. that can help. I will say music heals, and after listening to that, don't stop playing. Let the music heal you.
Originally posted by LLL View PostRequiescat en pace. She's in a much better place now.
Originally posted by Lewguitar View PostI'm so sorry. My wife, my soulmate, the love of my life, passed away at home three years ago after a long illness. Multiple Myeloma.
I have a pretty good idea of what you're feeling.
I picture my wife leaving this world with all of us who love her crying tears of sadness while she simultaneously enters into another world with all of those who love her and passed before her happily welcoming her home.
I do think it's something like that and I think of "death" as being a word for that transformation. Not as an ending but as a transition.
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Nice tune, btw.
Originally posted by dave74 View PostVery sorry for your loss.It's going to be a battle for awhile to not slip into negativity.
You might just have to fake-it and put on a happy face sometimes so your boys don't develop the feeling of being "wronged" by life/the world.
And then on the other hand you don't want them to think it's just all about "moving-on" now either.
It's going to be a tricky balance for sure but maybe it could help a bit if you occasionally discuss with them how lucky they are to have had such a good mom and how so many other children in the world never get to enjoy that blessing. Maybe make her birthday a family celebration day and focus on all the great stuff she did for them and their futures.
But yeah...I know I do need to be there for my kids. As hellish as this experience has been for me it was likely even worse for the two of them, I'm aware of that. I need to be there for them now more than ever before. I do talk to them and try and get them to focus on the many, many positive aspects of her life rather than what happened at the end. She was actually, despite it all, a very strong & positive person & always found ways to stay on top of things. They never got her down..
Originally posted by Securb View PostSo sorry for your lossOriginally posted by LesStrat View PostI offer my sincere condolences. I don’t know what I would do in your place.Nice tune. Thanks for sharing it.Originally posted by JOLLY View PostMy heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss.Originally posted by Gtrjunior View PostI am so sorry to hear about this. I can’t even imagine what you are going through. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
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I am so sorry to hear about this. I can’t even imagine what you are going through. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family.
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Very sorry for your loss.
It's going to be a battle for awhile to not slip into negativity.
You might just have to fake-it and put on a happy face sometimes so your boys don't develop the feeling of being "wronged" by life/the world.
And then on the other hand you don't want them to think it's just all about "moving-on" now either.
It's going to be a tricky balance for sure but maybe it could help a bit if you occasionally discuss with them how lucky they are to have had such a good mom and how so many other children in the world never get to enjoy that blessing. Maybe make her birthday a family celebration day and focus on all the great stuff she did for them and their futures.
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I offer my sincere condolences. I don’t know what I would do in your place.
Nice tune. Thanks for sharing it.
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I'm so sorry.
My wife, my soulmate, the love of my life, passed away at home three years ago after a long illness. Multiple Myeloma.
I have a pretty good idea of what you're feeling.
I picture my wife leaving this world with all of us who love her crying tears of sadness while she simultaneously enters into another world with all of those who love her and passed before her happily welcoming her home.
I do think it's something like that and I think of "death" as being a word for that transformation. Not as an ending but as a transition.
I'm very sorry for your loss.
Nice tune, btw.
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So sorry man - I don't have any words. that can help. I will say music heals, and after listening to that, don't stop playing. Let the music heal you.
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Thanks for the kind words/prayers guy's. It means a lot. Sorry to hear about your family & your wife's health issues Ascension. Things are pretty rough for my boys and me right now...she was such a sweet thing and deserved so much better than that. I really hope that you're right and that time will heal, at least to some extent. It's all been extremely hard to deal with. Really hope that playing my guitar will help me cope a bit better as well...
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Had no idea and can identify with much you say about family in ways you have no idea but in my case it was from my side. Had a couple incidents where I had serious health scares over the last few years with my wife so can also understand. Old adage that time heals all wounds and while it may not seem so now it's true you just have to find a way to make it through the storm. Prayers your way man and if there is absolutely anything I can do to help in this hit me with a PM.
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My heart goes out to you.
I don't know what else to say but I hope you find peace and a sense of purpose on your new journey. I hope your children find peace too.
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