I know that most people like their axe to be as flat as it can be with very little relief. I happen to like more relief on the neck bend.
Is it wrong of me if i like a bit more neck relief than what most people suggest? Would i ruin the fretboard?
Neck relief is a personal preference. There is no right or wrong. There is no "standard". It will cause no damage to your fretboard. It will have no/little affect on intonation and certainly has NO affect on tone whatsoever.
I always have a little relief. I don't like the way a guitar plays with a dead-straight neck.
I have to disagree with you a little on an individual guitar basis, yeah over a broad spectrum no effect, but on several of my guitars the thing comes alive with resonance with the right # on relief. They sing louder and seem to be snappier playing, my ear hears it as sounding better. Now it might be a psuedo tone effect because they feel so different to both hands but I play and sound better on an "alive" guitar. Both of my LP's go from nice to amazing with the right amount and one is .008 and the other is a loose .012/tight .013
It's enough difference in feel that I wouldn't have bought them if they had been out of the sweet spot in the store.
You certainly have the right to disagree all you want. But, in fact, you really aren't disagreeing at all. You are actually supporting what I said about it being personal preference according to your playing style/technique. If your guitar..."comes alive with resonance with the right # on relief", that means your strings were hitting just enough on the frets with a lower relief to not get a full amplitude of vibration. Maybe not enough to get an audible fret buzz, but enough to dampen their vibration. Or that your strings were too close to the pickups, and the magnetic field was damping their vibration.
I was exaggerating about Springsteen to make a point.
Sounds like you need a fret end dressing to smooth off those fret ends. I have had to do that with just about every guitar that I bought (about 40), no matter what the price was. It's interesting that the worst offenders were the cheapest guitars (less than $130) and the most expensive (over $2000...especially Gibsons). Guitars in the $500-1200 range were the best and required only minor work.
So i put a bit more releif. /something about 0.5 mm when checking on the 12th fretwire when i depress the 1st and last 24th fret at thesame time.
So i put a bit more releif. /something about 0.5 mm when checking on the 12th fretwire when i depress the 1st and last 24th fret at thesame time.
0.5mm relief is a huge, huge, huge amount. I set up (my) guitars to have approx. 0.15mm to 0.25mm. That's 0.006-0.010 inch. yes, that little. the moment you can slide a pick between the 7th or 8th fret and the string (with a capo on first fret, holding down the string at the 15th), your neck is way too hollow.
and yes, a neck too straight or too hollow can actually damage the trussrod, have frets pop out, or even pop through the fretboard. I've had it happen before. Not a pretty sight.
I must have misunderstood what you meant by..."Playing that and sliding up/down make my fingers caught up on the fret wires itself." I thought you were referring to the sharp edges of the fret ends.