Re: Safe ways to buy/sell/trade online.
If he has an Ebay account then he probably has a PayPal account, so why doesn't he want to accept a PayPal payment? I'd
rather use PayPal then escrow and sending a money order or cashiers check...I dunno...that's too risky in this day & age for such a small transaction. If you need an escrow service I know a place in Boston that I'd highly recommend but they'll whack 'ya for $50-100. I can sort of understand why he might not want to put it on Ebay, extra fees & hassle plus if someone else snags it first you're out the guitar. But still, if he wants to sell it does it matter HOW he does it?
With PayPal you send him the dough via bank transfer or credit card and it's instantly in his account like a wire transfer. Plus it gives you some recourse if you get the axe and it's wonky or he decides to ship you a guitar shaped box of rocks. True, PayPal will deduct a certain percentage of the sale, I think 3% but that's not a big deal for the amount of security it offers.
If you have his name, address & phone number you can do a reverse lookup at
www.whitepages.com or a similar site and see if it all checks out. If it does you're probably safe. OTOH, if it doesn't...buyer beware.
I've been buying, selling & trading on-line for about 10 years and I always trust my gut no matter HOW badly I may want or need something. So far (knock on wood) I haven't been taken for anything major, but if something isn't hitting you right...then walk away.