Who cares what everyone thinks?
In the grand scheme of things, it is kinda a fancy eq. Don't even want to get into the phase adjust - delay thing real or not deal, or how they should be used. I use an Apex Acoustic Exciter on my Acoustic rig and love it.
Your mileage may vary. I don't know how the BBE works or the control deal. I do know and understand the Aphex. Get it, try it, and if you dig it use it. Eff what everyone else says.
It might be your tonal secret weapon, or techno turd. Try it and find out. Not expensive.