Rookie mistake, I didn't have the bridge's volume 3rd lug soldered to the case.... oops.
Still isn't quite what I was looking for, the tone effects both pickups in the middle position (but no effect in the bridge selection), and either volume determines the max volume of both pickups in the middle position. If I have any/either volume rolled back, when I switch to the middle position then both pickups will drop to the volume to the lowest volume pot. I can't have the bridge at 100% and the neck at 70%, both will be at 70% in the middle position.
I was trying to get something like the danelectro '59 without having stacked pots. Those guitars you can blend in one pickup to the other when in the middle position. Gets some cool tones cause you can muffle up the neck pickup and just barely make it audible under the bridge, can have a low muffled tone underneath, sounds great with fuzz.
But this might not even be possible with the Noventa pickups, they have 2 wires, and the danelectro lipstick pickups seem to have 3.
https://www.premierguitar.com/diy/mod-garage/diving-into-danelectro
Maybe I was trying to do something that isn't possible with the existing hardware in the Noventa strats, and if I have to swap out all the existing hardware for new, I might as well just go 100% partcaster.
I'll play the guitar as is, and maybe revisit this project at another time. Been without the guitar for quite a few weeks, time to play it for a little bit for now.
Anyways, thanks for all the help on my crazy little project.