Re: Class A tube life
The marketing people are mostly to blame - they persist is calling low-powered cathode-biased amps "Class A" even though it's flat-out wrong. It's become a tone buzzword: "Oooh - Class A... it must sound good". Even magazines like Premier Guitar and Guitar Player do it (consistently). It drives me nuts.
As for your question about two tubes - almost all amps with two output tubes are push/pull, and almost all of them are Class A/B. Class A/B is simply a good way to get a decent amount of power out of a pair (or quad) of tubes.
There are a very few (boutique) amps out there that run multiple tubes in parallel, even though they are single-ended (and therefore Class A).
Imagine a Champ with a single 6V6 output tube. Single-ended, Class A, good for about five watts. If you wanted a bit more power, your could put two 6V6s in parallel (and change transformers for more current) and get 2-tube single-ended output stage, still Class A, that's good for maybe 8 or 9 watts.
Put those two 6V6s in a Deluxe Reverb in Class A/B push/pull with a fixed bias and they'll give 22 watts. This is why there are so few pure Class A amps out there. In fairness, the Deluxe Reverb is fixed bias, which maximizes its output power. If you ran it cathode-biased, it might only do 18-20 watts, very close to the ubiquitous dual-EL84 cathode-biased amps we think of a "Voxy".
To recap, though; I believe tube life has more to do with mechanical concerns and high B+ voltages than with operating class. Also, how well the amp is treated is a factor: how often is it powered up & down, how careful are you when moving them amp between warm and cold environments, that kind of stuff.
Edit: Crusty brings up bias, which is another good point. Running a hot bias gives the kind of sound that a lot of people want to hear, at the expense of tube life. The flip side is a colder bias, which gives longer tube life but we generally think of a sterlie; so it's a trade off.
In cathode-biased amps, the decision on where to run bias is taken out of our hands; the designer/builder selects the bias point and puts in the resistor/cap pair required to obtain it. After that, we (the players) can't mess with it without replacing components. It's also self-correcting. If you stick in a hotter set of tubes, the cathode-bias circuit tends to push bias colder to automatically compensate.
But Crusty's right - amps running a hot bias can be rough on tubes - but I think that's more common with fixed-bias amps.