pulling 2 tubes to save wear on the other 2 is a bad idea... No one here mentioned you HAVE To pull either the middle 2 or the outside 2... you cannot pull the 2 on the left or right and you have to halve the ohms on the back of the amp.
If you run the amp this way for some time and you put the other 2 tubes back in the wear will be uneven. The old tubes will draw less current than the new. At best the amp will be a little more noisy from the imbalance. At worst it if the imbalance is severe enough it can cause some weird surging in the sound issues.
Let the tubes wear as a set. Even an attenuator is an imperfect solution if you want to save wear on your tubes. An attenuator sound like pewp if you crank an amp to 10 and then dial it down to conversation levels. Its good if you need to run your amp on 5 but sound like its on 3. But it will still wear the tubes like the amp is on 5.
If you need something very quiet for your practice space I would suggest a different amp. That way you can save your tube amp for when it counts.