Re: HELP...looking for the perfect starting bass guitar for a band
What did your previous bassist use? Use that as a guide for what you want to get for yourself. If you are into rock - then get yourself a (Fender) Precision - otherwise get an active bass something in the Ibanez, Aria, Yamaha which will be easier to play.
For bass amps you are talking about getting lots of clean headroom - so a minimum of 120W, maybe more 200-300W. If the sound you are after is predominantly low end - then get a combo with a 15" speaker. I could go on about lots of things but, as others have said we need some more information on budget, type of music and if you play the guitar. Post in the guitar room for some more advice but give some more info when you are there.
BTW welcome to the forum.