Re: how do you get a band together?
after high school and college, it's the hardest thing ever.
The aforementioned ways are it, but man is it like pulling teeth. Half the people you wrangle in for a practice won't be able to play worth a crap but will have sworn they can, and the other half will fall into these categories:
-have drug or alcohol problems
-have personal lives in complete dissaray
-will click but will get tired with trying to start a band from the ground up and leave you to join an established band
-will be so busy with money making work or their personal life that a routine schedule is next to impossible
-will be a very good player, but will want to play one genre and one only: "buttcrust punk with exactly 3 breakdowns per song and one high pitched scream and no solos. must tune to Z"
I say get all this crap out in the open up front: are they serious (for that matter, are you?), how much do they party, what's their goals for their personal life and the band's life and how can those 2 co-exist? how flexible are they going to be with 4-5 dudes all trying to write at once? I've found if they're losers in their personal lives, they're losers in the band's life. I made it clear I was the least serious (to "make it big") in my band, but yet no one wanted to promote or come to practice on time. Yet they wanted to be stars. Yeah right.