Re: I like my amp sound better "off axis"
Back on-topic:
A speaker's "spread" is based largely on the relationship of the wave length to it's diameter. From this, a couple of logical extensions:
1) High frequencies tend to stay concentrated in the center but fall off to the sides.
2) All else being equal, a larger speaker will be "beamier" than a smaller speaker (this is why I was kinda surprised to see SRV with duct tape on a 4-10 combo).
As an aside, sealed-back cabs exaggerate all of this, since they don't spread the sound around the way open-back combos do.
So, if you prefer your off-axis sound to on-axis, there are several remedies:
a) Stand off-axis: This will make it sound great to you, but is someone else getting killed with the louder, shriller on-axis sound? You're likely to turn the amp up to get your sweet off-axis tone loud enough. Whether or not someone is standing right in the line of fire, that center axis is the loudest part of your sound, and it's going somewhere. At the very leasy, it's bouncing around in the room, raising the overall volume while reducing definition and intelligibility. (Of course, when the whole room gets cluttered up with unintelligible noise, everyone else is going to turn up so that they can hear themselves.)
b) Add Beam-Blockers (or duct tape): This will kill some of the highs in the on-axis area, making the response more consistent across the stage. You'll hear something similar no matter where you stand, and so will everyone else.
c) Replace your speakers with something that has an on-axis sound you like: (IMO, the best option). This way, you can point your cab right at yourself, and hear a tone you like. Since you are now standing in the loudest part of the pattern, you're happy because everyone likes to be the loudest. The rest of your amp's distribution pattern is quieter than where you're standing, which means less of you for the other band members, less chance of killing someone who paid top $$$ for front-row seats with less-than-stellar tone, and less useless volume cluttering up the overall sound in the room (and less chance of the soundman getting bitchy with you).