Re: potentiometers question
Or, if you only want the one vol control, use the 250k pot and add a 250k resistor in series with the hot rails pup.
Exactly wrong. You don't want a 250k resistor in series with your pickup, it will darken the pickup up like having a 500k pot rolled half way down.
When you use a volume pot wired normally, your pickup is on one side of the resistance, ground on the other side, and a wiper that moves between the two is your output. When you roll the pot down, you are introducing a series resistance between your pickup and the output, which is one reason your pickups get dark when the volume is rolled down unless you have some sort of cap or RC network between the hot input and the wiper.
That is also why amps have "bright caps" on the volume, to compensate for that. Except the guys who designed those never ever bothered to actually calculate out a RC network that would keep the same tone at different volume levels, which is why most amps with bright caps sound obnoxious and thin at lower volumes.
It's also why, for those of us who design tube amp circuits, we put a series resistance in the circuit. It is a signal level control, though it doesn't work nearly as well as a voltage divider, but it is also a TONE SHAPING control.
Point: Series resistance between guitar pickup and switch = foolish.
What you can do, and I've done it many times, is have a 500k pot and for the pickups you want to see 250k, put in a 500k (you're more likely to find 470k, but close enough, or you can go larger to) resistor from that switch position to ground. That puts the resistor in PARALLEL with the pot, not in series.
The only downside there is that when those 2 pickups are in parallel, both see the 250k, but if you use a 24 pole switch you can wire it so it only affects that position.
All that said, the 500k really won't hurt your neck pickup. Neck position is darker by nature so a tad more brightness probably wont bother you.