I was in the music store Sunday, that is where saw the reliced Martin. They had some reliced Strats that were beautiful. They would have been even if not reliced. However, 5K for any Strat is ridiculous. I can't get my head around not liking a guitar because it is reliced. It is just a finish, it would get akin to not liking enamel or poly. Or graphic designs. For me it is first about the feel of a guitar, then the sound, if it passes those tests I don't really care about the finish unless it is something extremely hideous.
So, let me get this right in case I misunderstood what you were saying.
If you walked into a store and saw two guitars that played and sounded exactly the same and were both priced at $2500, you could be happy with the one that was 10 years old, had lots of wear, was mistreated and abused, and never taken good care of (because that IS what relicing is imitating)...instead of the brand new one in pristine condition? And you wouldn't even think to tell the sales clerk you want a discount on the used one?