I've used D'Addarios pretty much exclusively since I first went pro in the mid-70s. Sound good, available everywhere, consistent quality.
I ran XL110s for decades but nowadays my hands aren't quite what they used to be.
Am in the process of switching to .009s for 25½" scale guitars and .0095s on the rest, except one dedicated slide axe.
My experience was, even using a really light glass slide, the .0095s just didn't cut it for slide work. For me.
Elixirs on the steel-string acoustics. They hold their tone and last remarkably long even with my highly corrosive sweat.
Tried 'em briefly on some electrics but they felt and sounded a little odd. Not necessarily bad, just different.
Also, with many guitars in my fleet the price difference would've been rather significant.
Still putting Rotosounds on the basses. Once again, been using them since the 70s.