Dad's Guitars

Silence Kid

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I was worried something posted here might come across as "Hey my dad died, look what I got!" Yet I'm compelled to make this post anyway; because my dad is important to me, so his guitars are important to me. I never wanted to think about any of these things, but I suppose this place is the best outlet in my life for anything guitar related.

I can't bear the thought of taking them to my home yet, so they're all still where my dad left them; I feel guilty to even turn the knobs in all honesty. There are five guitars I'm now custodian of:

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Pictured as he left it. Dad developed a desire to try electric only in the last couple years. He became interested in Dire Straits/late Clapton; a lot of my recent interactions with my Dad were basically daring each other through text to buy stuff on eBay so that's where this came from. I also pointed him toward the Orange Crush- I had one too and they actually do sound good clean (how he played) even if the overdrive tone is pretty hilarious. It has a really beefy neck that has a good amt. of birdseye (why I suggested it to him,) and in all honesty it's been so long since I played through a small solid state amp with stock ceramic Fender single coils I was humbled it sounded as good as it did.

One thing- There's a pretty decent ding on one of the high frets that pretty much prohibits bending (Dad never played that high.)

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I last saw him maybe a month and a half ago. We met for burgers and he gave me this for no specific reason. Dad was a G&L fan. The week before he died I ordered new plastic toggle tips for this guitar (now reproduced by G&L; ) I meant to text him about it, but was ultimately not able.

Tribute ASAT Deluxe (didn't bother with pics.) One day he texted me excited about the below video and told me there was a sale on Musicians Friend; when the guitar arrived it was completely un-intonated and the saddles were sky high. I first played it in the dark and felt like an idiot when I couldn't stay in tune; only the next morning did I see the arrangement of the saddles. Took allen wrenches to it to make it playable; after that I think it was the guitar Dad liked playing the most.


There are two acoustics, neither pictured. He has a cheap Mitchell in his house in the desert; the neck basically folds itself in half depending on the season in the harsh climate. Last I saw it it was back-bowed and had fret sprout that led to a lot of blood spatter on the sofa.

In Christmas of 1999 dad bought two guitars and told me to pick one; he'd take the other. I'm not unhappy to say I screwed myself over :D I was a stupid fourteen year old and took the Takamine Jasmine because it had a cutaway; he took the Takamine G-240 . The G-240 isn't high end, but sounds pretty great for a laminate; after a couple more years I recognized my mistake. It's still on a stand with the original plastic over the pickguard. The Jasmine, on the other hand, led a rough life; I took it everywhere, it developed a loose/rattling brace, the electronics quit, it got thrown into campfires etc. And it never sounded decent.

Dad bought the Takamine(s) so we could in theory retire the guitar on the right, below:

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1976 Takamine F430 . This is the guitar I remember him playing when I was two; Gordon Lightfoot, Kris Kristofferson, Cat Stevens etc. It still smells as it did; the case still has the same corny old strap, capo, and pitch pipe I used to "play" along with his singing. When I took an interest in guitar this got handed to me, and I've had custody since (so unlike the above mentioned, this one is actually with me now.) I would still tell you this guitar is not ideal for me- the neck is deep and almost v'd (I'm a 'thumb-behind' person so this is almost painful,) and between a repaired crack in the laminate top from when it was dropped decades ago and the cheesy adjustable bridge, it's not the most complex sounding acoustic.

...But more than any other guitar, I feel like I *know* this one; it might be as uncomfortable as hell, but it's just so familiar it can't help but feel like I'm at home to play it. So it never quite retired or got replaced by the Jasmine (the Jasmine, on the other hand, reached a point where it was unplayable rather quickly.) I've been playing this guitar a decent amount lately, even though I'd been preserving it in its case for the most part.

Next to it in the pic above is a 1968 Japan Yamaha FG260 he bought new, and maybe played for ten whole minutes by him; it survived in basically mint condition with the exception that it's quite bellied, and the neck at one time had a pretty dire amount of relief. I accepted it from him basically as a dare; then shaved the bridge saddle down, ramped it to give the strings break angle and shimmed the truss nut. Dad was pretty impressed at the improvement; still difficult to play by any standard though.

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I have no clue what I'm going to do with these guitars, but I'll have to collect them eventually. I'm going to keep them and play them, of course; pretty much mod-exempt though. Again, obviously I've been thinking about a lot of things other than guitars lately. As much as I've written here, I could fill a book with everything else. Make good memories while you can.
 
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Above all, enjoy dad's guitars in love of him. I hear it in your words.
 
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Their custody has passed to you. It's hard, but you will be better for it when you take them for your own.
May his memory be eternal.

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May you write lots of music on these guitars. Soon, they will bring you nothing but smiles.
 
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Sorry for your loss.
My father never played an instrument but we shared a love of old cars. My garage is full of his tools and every time I use the drill press or a couple specific hand tools I think of him.
Eventually you will know what to keep just to have, what to use, and what to pass along to someone else. In the meantime don't try to make any permanent decisions.
 
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Not necessarily guitar related, my father never played, but I can hear him saying Jesus hit that thing. ( building stuff ) Maybe applies here.
They are yours now own them as such and give a wink skyward every time you play em.
 
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I am so sorry for your loss. My dad passed in 1990 and I still miss him, and think of him every day. In his own way, he was very supportive of my music.

I am currently dealing with some medical issues that have me examining my own mortality. Trying to figure out how the boss will be able to deal with 60 guitars when I die (hopefully a long time from now.)

I can tell you, that should you decide to sell, the lovely F-100 you have would be a big hit on the G&L Forum at www.guitarsbyleo.com. There are many fans of the Leo-era G&Ls over there.

Take care of yourself...all the best to you.

Bill
 
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Sounds like your dad really enjoyed his relationship with you and was always trying to strengthen that bond via guitars/music...a common interest. I envy the times you two shared playing and talking guitars.

Ultimately, it was my deep love for rock that put a wedge in the relationship I had with my dad (he loved classical music but hated that loud and raucous music which influenced behavior in "bad" ways). Oh well, he's been gone for 10-15 years now...I think about him a lot with fond memories and deep love but wish I had done more to foster a better appreciation for each other rather than choosing my rock music instead him.

I ache for you because of your loss. Thanks for sharing with us. With love and pride you show us images and declare..."These were my dad's".
 
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Guitars are one of the few possessions that allow you to connect with someone that has passed. Twisting the same knobs, palm wrapping around the same neck and fingers dancing across the same fretboard, all of that can connect the two of you in a very visceral way. Thank you for sharing your memories and best wishes on making new ones in his honor.
 
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First, really sorry for the loss of your father. Enjoy those guitars and talk to him when you play them, that'll be the best use for all of them.
 
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My condolences. All I can say is don't feel guilty about (eventually) bringing these guitars home. Sounds like he'd be much happier knowing you were playing them.
 
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Sounds like your dad really enjoyed his relationship with you and was always trying to strengthen that bond via guitars/music...a common interest. I envy the times you two shared playing and talking guitars.

Ultimately, it was my deep love for rock that put a wedge in the relationship I had with my dad (he loved classical music but hated that loud and raucous music which influenced behavior in "bad" ways). Oh well, he's been gone for 10-15 years now...I think about him a lot with fond memories and deep love but wish I had done more to foster a better appreciation for each other rather than choosing my rock music instead him.

I ache for you because of your loss. Thanks for sharing with us. With love and pride you show us images and declare..."These were my dad's".

My Dad would come down the steps and scream " you turn of that f#$@&n music or I"ll smash that with a hammer" LOL Lost my Dad in 2010
 
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Sorry for your loss, happy your Dad shared a hobby you both could enjoy together
 
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The way I see it, when you make use of a material possession that a loved one used to enjoy, at that moment you come just a tad closer to that loved one at that moment that they made use of and enjoyed said possession.

To put it a simpler way:
You wear you mom's old and worn-out robe because she loved wearing that thing around the house, you drive your dad's old car 'cause cars were his passion and that car was the one that was the most special to him.

You play your dad's guitar(s) 'cause that was one passion that you two shared and playing it makes you feel like he's still listening you from wherever he might be and can't help but smile in satisfaction and, maybe even pride.

At least that's how I see it, and as such, the only appropriate thing to say is my usual NGD wish:
Enjoy them in good health brother.
 
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Please accept my deepest sympathies on your loss. May you celebrate your relationship with him, and love for him in all you do. And may these musical tools and trinkets help to carry on that love in your life. Thanks for sharing your heart with us.
 
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Oh man, those are some cool guitars, but even cooler is the relationship you had with your dad. :)
 
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I’m sorry for your loss.

Bask in the glory of music. Use it to remember him.

Envision him with a smile having a good time.

Write some new tunes on them if you are a writer.

Learn some new technique on one of them.

Or just keep them safe :)


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