not upset, so much as rather surprised by the lack of tact you showed in presenting the question in an intentionally provocative manner.
Fortunately, the owners of the forum, and most of the members are gracious enough to answer your questions honestly and forthrightly.
This matter most likely could have been resolved gracefully by the parties involved, rather than a secondhand source.
For the record, I've seen Seymour helping countless players on an individual basis at guitar shows. I've had friends tell me about Seymour's generosity in helping them with pickups. Seymour himself mentioned this in his post on Ampage, except in the context of helping other pickup winders, like Jason Lollar, who said that Seymour had helped him.
Yes, there is a lot of loyalty to Seymour Duncan on this forum, and it's based in large part on the man's character.
Your original question, and your assertions, on the other hand, are entirely inconsistent with his character.
Peace