Mask off the fret board with decorators' masking tape, then run a Sharpie along EVERY fret. That way, as you're levelling, you can see where you are taking fret material from and can adjust as necessary.
Well, in my experience, things are never that extreme. A high fret usually is one that has popped out of the slot somewhat, so you get that one (or several) re-seated before you do any leveling.
As far as taking down the leveled frets, that is a necessary part of the process. Before starting, we assume that there are no "level" frets. You have to take some height off of every fret and only then will you know they are all truly level.
The correctly sitting frets will get a bit of a flat top and will have to be re-crowned, too. I'm not aware of anything that can be done about that.
But done correctly (again using the sharpie to colour the top of the fret), the crowning process shouldn't lower the actual height of the fret at all. That's important after a fret level ... NOT to remove any more height when removing the flat tops via crowning. The crowning process is really only to reshape the sides of the frets to bring back the familiar rounded profile, WITHOUT reducing the height at the very centre (crown) of the fret. After crowning, one should still see a very thin line of ink from the sharpie along the centre of the fret, and representing the highest point, which has remained untouched after being levelled.
Mask off the fret board with decorators' masking tape, then run a Sharpie along EVERY fret. That way, as you're levelling, you can see where you are taking fret material from and can adjust as necessary.
What tool do you guys doing your own fret work recommend for crowning? I want to start doing all my own work and I've got leveling stuff, and I'm comfortable with that, but I've never done any crowning so I'm not sure. Everything I'd be doing has med jumbo to jumbo.
For crowning I ponied up the money for the Stew-Mac files. I don't see how I could evade that if I want the correct radius on top of the frets.
There's like 15 different kinds. Which one specifically?