Tortex or Ultex .88s, either-or, standard shape, strumming GHS Boomers or Nickel Rockers (depends on guitar) for electrics. Dunlop nylons in .73 or .88 strumming D'Addario phosphor bronze or Earthwood Silk & Steels for acoustics. Again, that varies by guitar.
D'addario EXL's 9-42 on all my (Fender scale) guitar's. EXL 10-42 on short scale one's (which I have very few of..)
As for picks ..mostly Dunlop 3.0mm Big Stubby's (either the transparent purple or the opaque grey one's)...occasionally Ultex (transparent yellow) Jazz III's.