Re: Hey Blueman, got a serious question for you!
Thanks for your answer man! I understand now.
That's all I need to say, really. This topic might seem like a half-cocked attempt at calling you out at something, but anyone who's kept an eye on me during the years, knows that's not my style.
I made it public because I thought it would be a worthwhile post. I think it was.
Glad to oblige. Hey Diego baby, I know you're sincere. I guess I'm an enimga of sorts. If you are one of those who want to get crunchy British blues tones, especially with Gibson-design guitars, I've probably helped you at some point. I share what I've learned. If you're defensive and overreact when people question you, I may have had a laugh at your expense. Yes, I'm controversial and opinionated, but
much more open-minded than some think.
I've thought thru what I like and what I believe, and don't care who agrees or disagrees with me. I'm not on this planet to please them. Throughout my life, many of my close friends have had
radically different views on things than me, but that doesn't interfere with our friendships. I have
a lot more respect for people who disagree with me, who have put some thought into it and are secure in their views. They're never threatened by my opinions or questions, nor I by theirs. It's always respectful. Why shouldn't it be?
While on the subject I'd like to say: My apologies to the forum for the occasional tantrums a couple members have directed at me. This forum is 99% opinions and they're usually all over the spectrum. So. What, we can only post here if we agree with certain members? We're adults, we can agree to disagree
respectfully. Who's a genius that's never wrong? Raise your hand. This is about gear and music,
opinions of gear and music. Stick to that and leave out the personal attacks. If you're rude to people because they don't see things the way you do, you're offering that instead of anything meaningful. Yeah, good plan; the strategy of humiliation really wins people over, and you impress others with your short temper. :eyecrazy: Look, if you're secure in your views and beliefs, you
don't care what other people say. It doesn't matter. It doesn't effect your life in the least. If you're not, you overreact and your part of the conversation degenerates into personal insults. And who looks stupid? It's always the hot head, the guy losing his cool. I guess all of us know a few people who think this is the way to handle things, and the forum has it's share. I really believe that if we were all in a room together we'd get along great. But put a keyboard in everyone's hands, and a few guys get malicious. I don't know why they have a personality change. Is it the impersonality of being online? What I do know is that Seymour didn't go to the trouble of creating these forums so that a few people could lash out at fellow members who don't see eye-to-eye with them. That needs to stop. Being here is a priveledge, not a right. Act accordingly and we'll all have a good time.