OK. Turns out i was using silver-bearing solder used for jewelry. Not good.
I took everything completely apart and checked them with a meter. The pots all read about 460k. Capacitors worked. Everything stil goood.
I wired everything back up. It works BETTER than it did before, but stil SUCKS.
Still a hum, (a grounding problem i know). The output is stil VERY low. Jeremy, yes it does get quieter when the coils are tapped. It seems to get louder when phase is reversed. neck series with bridge SUCKS. It's quiet, and it just does not sound good at all.
I've checked everything over and over. This REALLY f*ckin sucks.
I guess conclusion, i just suck at wiring. Should i take it to a tech?