Re: Will a thicker e string give me better control?
Itsa is correct,
You gotta get your finger under the string so when you bend, it doesn't slip. I saw Harvey Mandel once and he had big frets, fairly flat radius nek and strings were high. He bent a G string in the key of C (E flat or C#) and pushed it toward the low E string to get the note G for goodness sakes, and his first finger went all the way under, I repeat under, the D, A, and low E strings, it was on an old "Hot Licks" video. I was lucky and got to back him up for a couple weeks and there was a lotta room for his fingers to get under the strings with all kinds of bends; especially A. King style, and he used a regular slinky set, as I snooped as hard as I could.
Myself, I cheat. I have a 9.5 E string and bend like A. King all the time so I flattened out the wood between the frets on all my guitars, NOT scooped, but flat, which really gets me some traction on bending strings. So I effectively have a totally flat or NO radius on my neck. On all my guitars. I radius the frets to 20". I do this by hand as it is cheaper than ordering a flat new neck. Doesn't take long and I like it, even though most don't.
I only bring this up as more proof that getting the string, especially high gauge strings, higher on your finger, the easier it is to bend.
Steve Buffington BTY: maple is a b*tch 'cause then I have refinish it with a nice color sealer so I don't get a black fingerboard from all the finger oils!