I think I figured it out. See below. I've left out all the usual grounds, treble bleeds, the toggle switch and the output jack. The volumes will be wired for independent volumes, so the "ins" go to the pot middle lugs and the "outs" to the toggle switch are wired to the left outer lugs as drawn.
Neck Humbucker
The neck humbucker push-pull coil splits to the screw coil, and does not phase flip.
Black is hot, green is a permanent ground.
Red is joined to the middle / common lug on one side of the push pull. In push it connects to white, so the humbucker works as a regular humbucker.
In pull the red connects to the input lug (middle because I'm wiring for independent volumes) and the white is left hanging.
The black goes to the common lug on the other side of the push-pull. In push it goes to the volume pot input lug, in pull it goes to ground, so one end of the deactivated coil ast least is grounded. The arrangement leaves the south (screw coil) active in the coil split, which will be hum canceling with the bridge slug coil if that's split too, not phase flipped.
Thanks to dystrust for that suggestion.
Bridge Humbucker
The bridge humbucker is wired a bit differently.
The green and black go first to a push pull on the tone pot, which is wired the normal way for a phase flip. In push black remains hot, green remains ground, but phase flipped the opposite applies. I can phase flip the bridge whether coil split or not.
The red and white wires go to a common lug on the push pull. In push they are left hanging, but connected to each other, so the humbucker works like a regular humbucker, phase flipped or not. In pull they are both grounded. That means with the phase flip not flipped, the humbucker coil splits the usual way, leaving the north (slug) coil active. The black is still the hot, and the white is the slug coil ground. The red and green are both grounded, leaving the screw coil inactive.
When phase flipped
and coil split, however, this happens. The black becomes the ground and the green becomes the hot. The red and white in pull on the volume pot get grounded just the same. But now, the green is the hot instead of the ground, and the red is grounded instead of going to the volume pot input lug, so now the screw coil works and is phase flipped.
Hope I'm right... Please point out any cock-ups

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