Aceman
I am your doctor of love!
I had the same problem, and I got a solution for you. My Fender Excelsior matches my living room set perfectly, but the ex-wife wasn't having it in the living room. My new fiance loves having the amp in the living room. The problem is solved.
I don't think it is the decor as much much as my lack of discipline. I'd eventually turn it on and play it while she was watching TV. Just compulsive musical urges. That would cause problems. Can't do it if it isn't there. I'm content with there being an amp everywhere else except the kitchen, the shower, and the living room...LOL.